I watched this movie about Iris Murdoch once, and I'd link to a page about her but I'm too lazy. Plus it's late and that's not even the important part anyway.
One of her lines in the movie is something along the lines of, "We lie every time we speak, because there is no way that our thoughts and feelings can fit so neatly into the categories words create--we have so much more going on in our minds than our words can even attempt to convey."
And I know I've butchered it (with words! Get it?) but don't you ever feel like that? Sometimes, that's exactly how I feel.